What even are the best remote control sex toys and why would I trust to put them anywhere near my vagina? Let’s start by answering some common questions… By Deon Black • Updated April 9, 2025

The best remote control sex toys? Seriously? Yes. Keep reading.

If technology interfering in your vagina sex life disturbs you a bit, raise your hand. I mean, the concept is really fucking cool from a look-how-far-we’ve-come point of view, but in practical application, I was a bit more reserved, at first.

What even are the best remote control sex toys and why would I trust to put them anywhere near my vagina? Let’s try and answer some of the questions I had and that you may have about remote control toys.

Top 3 Remote Control Sex Toys

7. Lovense Lush – Wearable egg vibrator. App controlled. Easy to use
8. Onyx & Pearl Couple Set – Great remote controlled set for long distance relationships
9. We-Vibe Vector – Remote controlled prostate massager Keep scrolling for 14 more epic remote controlled sex toys!

What are Remote Controlled Sex Toys?

Remote control sex toys are, just like the name says, sex toys that can be controlled with a remote. By you, or another willing participant (always ask!). These remotes work at different distances (same room or long-distance) depending on the toy and the manufacturer, which opens or limits your sexing horizons.

They’ve been on the market for a few years, now, so here are the categories you can find at the moment. While not all of them have been inside, or near my nether regions, I put on my sexy librarian glasses, did some very pleasurable research and found:

Remote control bullet vibes, love eggs, vibrators, anal plugs, dildos, cock rings, Fleshlights, vaginal exercise devices.

Now, the list I have compiled below is by no means meant to be exhaustive; there are plenty of other good toys out there and entire categories of toys I haven’t included, like cock rings and Fleshlights.

But this list features toys that are popular, high-quality, easy to use and to find, that are mostly for the ladies.

How did We Choose These Teledildonics Devices?

I employed a super scientific process in which I fucked myself with all 14 and now I’m very sore. No, I didn’t, can you imagine if I did that? No, I went online and looked for what’s popular in stores and what has the best reviews.

It doesn’t matter if a store has 957646 types of remote dildos if they’re crap, right? So, I picked what people buy and what people enjoy. Give the people what they want! Also, we’ve got a word limit and my editor would have killed me if I came up with like, 35 of them. Sorry, gang.

How Can I Use Remote Control Sex Toys?

Babe, you can use them however the hell you want.

That being said, they’re generally meant to be used with a partner, but you can also use them solo. In my experience, the best application is in public – you know, at the movies, at a PTA meeting, or while you smile sweetly at your mother in law from across the table. Just don’t let her hear the buzzing.

14 Best Remote Control Sex Toys – Vibrators

1) The Kiiroo Pearl 2

View on Kiiroo.com

Lelo Ida

View on Lelo

What it is: It’s not a vibrator, ok? It’s a massager. Whatever the hell this is, it works. And it has a dual function – I love me some 2 for 1. Look, I’m a simple woman, I don’t need a lot, so if something stimulates both my G-spot AND my clit at the same time, in 6 (!!!) ways, I consider myself satisfied.

What’s so special about it? Ohhhhh boy, a lot of things. Get this – the shaft on this thing rotates inside you to make you scream. I bet you haven’t found a dick that can do that yet, eh? Plus, it buzzes your clit in like, 8 different ways AT THE SAME TIME.

On top of all this, your partner can control the rotation and vibration pattern and speed. Oh, and it’s waterproof, so you can play in the tub. AND it runs for a mind-blowing and very sore 4 hours. Phew. I’m just gonna say it now: throw out all your other toys, throw out your man, Ida is The One.

The tech specs:

• Length: 3.5 inches
• Circumference: 3 inches
• Waterproof
• 1 year warranty
• Run time: 4 hours
• Charge time: 2 hours
• 2 AAA batteries

3) We-Vibe Sync

View on We-Vibe

What it is: I’ll tell you what it is, the coolest toy on the list. Another one that has a dual purpose and fucks your clit and your G-spot at the same time. Not only that, but it’s flexible and adjustable, so it can correctly stimulate your specific G-spot, not some other skank’s. It’s the little things that make the difference.

What’s so special about it? It has an excellent and techy as fuck feature – the vibrations sync with the music on your phone, making it possible to personalize your buzzing, in addition to the already existing modes. How cool is that?!

This thing has a freaking app that allows you to customize patterns and even control it from far away (when was this thing when I had that sad and sexless long-distance relationship?).

The tech specs:

• Length: 2.94 inches
• Width: 1.23 inches
• Run time: 90 minutes
• Waterproof
• USB rechargeable

Best Remote Control Sex Toys – Love Eggs

4) Alive 10

What it is: It’s a bullet vibe! It’s a dildo! It’s a vibrating love egg! For you prudes who are unfamiliar with this type of toy, it’s an egg-shaped vibrator that you insert up your vag for a good time. This one has a remote control for you or someone else to play with the kind of vibrations you desire to impart.

What’s so special about it? It’s pretty standard, as far as love eggs go (but what a shitty name, right? Love egg), but it has the advantage of being wireless, but with a removal loop (can you imagine how awkward it would be to stick it up there and have a wire coming out of you, plugged into the wall?) and of featuring 10 different vibrating functions for your masturbatory pleasure.

The tech specs:

• Length: 6.5 inches, of which 3.5 inches are insertable
• Circumference: 4.5 inches
• 1 A23 battery + 2 AAA batteries
• Wireless
• 10 vibrating modes

5) Desire Luxury

View on Lovehoney.com

Strongest Remote Control Bullet

View on Vibrators.com

Little Black Thong

View on Adameve.com

Cupid’s Perfect

Aneros WPT123 Bullet

Waterproof Remote Control Bullet

View on Vibrators.com

B-Vibe Rimming Plug

What it is: Why should your pussy be the only one that vibrates? There’s remote control pleasure for amateurs of anal play, too. (Show of hands?) The b-Vibe is a butt plug, but one that vibrates and has features that open up some interesting possibilities.

What’s so special about it? A vibrating butt plug is enough to get a gal wet, but the special thing about this one is that it’s remote control operated, which means you can hand over control to someone else. Not only that, but it has rotating beads especially designed for rimming.

That probably gets extra Horrify Your Mother-in-Law points. Plus, it has a motor in the tip to please prostate and G-spot owners alike. I’m all for equality and equal-opportunity butt pleasure.

The tech specs:

• Length: 11.6 inches
• Circumference: 6.3 inches
• USB rechargeable
• 30 ft. range

12) BigBanana Anal Plug

View on Amazon.com

USB Kegel Dual Exercise Weighted Device

What it is: This is not marketed as an actual sex toy, or maybe I’m just super dumb. It’s a Kegel weight, and Kegels are exercises for your vagina (yes, really – the younger your vagina looks, the younger you look!).

The device is meant to be inserted and by contracting the muscles to keep it up there, you’re strengthening them and supposedly improving your bladder control. Hmm baby, putting a stop to urinary incontinence is so sexy.

What’s so special about it? This isn’t just any Kegel device, though – it vibrates, which essentially makes it a vibrator, or a love egg. Obviously, it stimulates your bladder pussy up the wazoo, so it’s hilarious that they’re trying to pretend it’s an exercise device.

I mean, this thing has a remote control, 10 vibrating frequencies and it’s waterproof. Really guys, if it walks like a sex toy and quacks makes you come like a sex toy, it’s a fucking sex toy.

The tech specs:

• Measurements: 2.7 inches x 1.3 inches
• Run time: max 2 hours
• USB charged

Remote control dildos

14) Get Real Remote Control Realistic Dildo

What it is: This is 7 inches of realistic looking plastic cock. It’s big, it’s veiny, it’s anatomically correct, and it vibrates. As I said earlier, not a lot of real cocks do, so you could argue this is better, but I digress.

Use it by yourself or have a partner control it and hope that men are better at using cocks that aren’t theirs to make you come.

What’s so special about it? If you’ve ever been incorrectly rammed by some idiot and wished you could just control his dick with a remote, well, here it is. Remote controlled dick is the best kind of dick, because you can make it do whatever YOU want.

Suck it, selfish-boyfriend-I-had-in-10th-grade, my orgasm is important, too! …which is why this toy stimulates your G-spot in like, 10 different ways.

The remote would suggest that you could have a partner control it, but this thing features a suction cup, so you can just ride this baby wildly into the night all by yourself.

The tech specs:

• Length: 8.5 inches, of which 7 are insertable
• Circumference: 5 inches
• 2 AA batteries

So what did we learn from this?

When you’ve got no control over your life, a shallow illusion can be enough, and that illusion can be provided by a literal remote control, so you can dominate your (or your partner’s) pussy, or ass. Do both at the same time for maximum results.

Extra Dirty for Your (Reading) Pleasure!

One woman already tried some of them and let her husband control her orgasms around town. And just for shits and giggles, here are some stories about mothers in law that are not my own, but that are batshit insane.

Related posts:

21 Best Vibrating Panties You’ll Get Addicted ToThe 18 Best Sex Toys for Couples – Oh You’re Gonna Love This18 Best Lesbian Sex Toys (2025) – Lesbian Paradise is Here19 Best Nipple Clamps & Suckers – Top BDSM Nipple Toys155. Lovense Lush – Wearable egg vibrator. App controlled. Easy to use 156. Onyx & Pearl Couple Set – Great remote controlled set for long distance relationships 157. We-Vibe Vector – Remote controlled prostate massager Keep scrolling for 14 more epic remote controlled sex toys!

Remote control sex toys are, just like the name says, sex toys that can be controlled with a remote. By you, or another willing participant (always ask!). These remotes work at different distances (same room or long-distance) depending on the toy and the manufacturer, which opens or limits your sexing horizons.

They’ve been on the market for a few years, now, so here are the categories you can find at the moment. While not all of them have been inside, or near my nether regions, I put on my sexy librarian glasses, did some very pleasurable research and found:

Remote control bullet vibes, love eggs, vibrators, anal plugs, dildos, cock rings, Fleshlights, vaginal exercise devices.

Now, the list I have compiled below is by no means meant to be exhaustive; there are plenty of other good toys out there and entire categories of toys I haven’t included, like cock rings and Fleshlights.

But this list features toys that are popular, high-quality, easy to use and to find, that are mostly for the ladies.

How did We Choose These Teledildonics Devices?

I employed a super scientific process in which I fucked myself with all 14 and now I’m very sore. No, I didn’t, can you imagine if I did that? No, I went online and looked for what’s popular in stores and what has the best reviews.

It doesn’t matter if a store has 957646 types of remote dildos if they’re crap, right? So, I picked what people buy and what people enjoy. Give the people what they want! Also, we’ve got a word limit and my editor would have killed me if I came up with like, 35 of them. Sorry, gang.

How Can I Use Remote Control Sex Toys?

Babe, you can use them however the hell you want.

That being said, they’re generally meant to be used with a partner, but you can also use them solo. In my experience, the best application is in public – you know, at the movies, at a PTA meeting, or while you smile sweetly at your mother in law from across the table. Just don’t let her hear the buzzing.

14 Best Remote Control Sex Toys – Vibrators

1) The Kiiroo Pearl 2

View on Kiiroo.com

Lelo Ida

View on Lelo

What it is: It’s not a vibrator, ok? It’s a massager. Whatever the hell this is, it works. And it has a dual function – I love me some 2 for 1. Look, I’m a simple woman, I don’t need a lot, so if something stimulates both my G-spot AND my clit at the same time, in 6 (!!!) ways, I consider myself satisfied.

What’s so special about it? Ohhhhh boy, a lot of things. Get this – the shaft on this thing rotates inside you to make you scream. I bet you haven’t found a dick that can do that yet, eh? Plus, it buzzes your clit in like, 8 different ways AT THE SAME TIME.

On top of all this, your partner can control the rotation and vibration pattern and speed. Oh, and it’s waterproof, so you can play in the tub. AND it runs for a mind-blowing and very sore 4 hours. Phew. I’m just gonna say it now: throw out all your other toys, throw out your man, Ida is The One.

The tech specs:

• Length: 3.5 inches
• Circumference: 3 inches
• Waterproof
• 1 year warranty
• Run time: 4 hours
• Charge time: 2 hours
• 2 AAA batteries

3) We-Vibe Sync

View on We-Vibe

What it is: I’ll tell you what it is, the coolest toy on the list. Another one that has a dual purpose and fucks your clit and your G-spot at the same time. Not only that, but it’s flexible and adjustable, so it can correctly stimulate your specific G-spot, not some other skank’s. It’s the little things that make the difference.

What’s so special about it? It has an excellent and techy as fuck feature – the vibrations sync with the music on your phone, making it possible to personalize your buzzing, in addition to the already existing modes. How cool is that?!

This thing has a freaking app that allows you to customize patterns and even control it from far away (when was this thing when I had that sad and sexless long-distance relationship?).

The tech specs:

• Length: 2.94 inches
• Width: 1.23 inches
• Run time: 90 minutes
• Waterproof
• USB rechargeable

Best Remote Control Sex Toys – Love Eggs

4) Alive 10

What it is: It’s a bullet vibe! It’s a dildo! It’s a vibrating love egg! For you prudes who are unfamiliar with this type of toy, it’s an egg-shaped vibrator that you insert up your vag for a good time. This one has a remote control for you or someone else to play with the kind of vibrations you desire to impart.

What’s so special about it? It’s pretty standard, as far as love eggs go (but what a shitty name, right? Love egg), but it has the advantage of being wireless, but with a removal loop (can you imagine how awkward it would be to stick it up there and have a wire coming out of you, plugged into the wall?) and of featuring 10 different vibrating functions for your masturbatory pleasure.

The tech specs:

• Length: 6.5 inches, of which 3.5 inches are insertable
• Circumference: 4.5 inches
• 1 A23 battery + 2 AAA batteries
• Wireless
• 10 vibrating modes

5) Desire Luxury

View on Lovehoney.com

Strongest Remote Control Bullet

View on Vibrators.com

Little Black Thong

View on Adameve.com

Cupid’s Perfect

Aneros WPT123 Bullet

Waterproof Remote Control Bullet

View on Vibrators.com

B-Vibe Rimming Plug

What it is: Why should your pussy be the only one that vibrates? There’s remote control pleasure for amateurs of anal play, too. (Show of hands?) The b-Vibe is a butt plug, but one that vibrates and has features that open up some interesting possibilities.

What’s so special about it? A vibrating butt plug is enough to get a gal wet, but the special thing about this one is that it’s remote control operated, which means you can hand over control to someone else. Not only that, but it has rotating beads especially designed for rimming.

That probably gets extra Horrify Your Mother-in-Law points. Plus, it has a motor in the tip to please prostate and G-spot owners alike. I’m all for equality and equal-opportunity butt pleasure.

The tech specs:

• Length: 11.6 inches
• Circumference: 6.3 inches
• USB rechargeable
• 30 ft. range

12) BigBanana Anal Plug

View on Amazon.com

USB Kegel Dual Exercise Weighted Device

What it is: This is not marketed as an actual sex toy, or maybe I’m just super dumb. It’s a Kegel weight, and Kegels are exercises for your vagina (yes, really – the younger your vagina looks, the younger you look!).

The device is meant to be inserted and by contracting the muscles to keep it up there, you’re strengthening them and supposedly improving your bladder control. Hmm baby, putting a stop to urinary incontinence is so sexy.

What’s so special about it? This isn’t just any Kegel device, though – it vibrates, which essentially makes it a vibrator, or a love egg. Obviously, it stimulates your bladder pussy up the wazoo, so it’s hilarious that they’re trying to pretend it’s an exercise device.

I mean, this thing has a remote control, 10 vibrating frequencies and it’s waterproof. Really guys, if it walks like a sex toy and quacks makes you come like a sex toy, it’s a fucking sex toy.

The tech specs:

• Measurements: 2.7 inches x 1.3 inches
• Run time: max 2 hours
• USB charged

Remote control dildos

14) Get Real Remote Control Realistic Dildo

What it is: This is 7 inches of realistic looking plastic cock. It’s big, it’s veiny, it’s anatomically correct, and it vibrates. As I said earlier, not a lot of real cocks do, so you could argue this is better, but I digress.

Use it by yourself or have a partner control it and hope that men are better at using cocks that aren’t theirs to make you come.

What’s so special about it? If you’ve ever been incorrectly rammed by some idiot and wished you could just control his dick with a remote, well, here it is. Remote controlled dick is the best kind of dick, because you can make it do whatever YOU want.

Suck it, selfish-boyfriend-I-had-in-10th-grade, my orgasm is important, too! …which is why this toy stimulates your G-spot in like, 10 different ways.

The remote would suggest that you could have a partner control it, but this thing features a suction cup, so you can just ride this baby wildly into the night all by yourself.

The tech specs:

• Length: 8.5 inches, of which 7 are insertable
• Circumference: 5 inches
• 2 AA batteries

So what did we learn from this?

When you’ve got no control over your life, a shallow illusion can be enough, and that illusion can be provided by a literal remote control, so you can dominate your (or your partner’s) pussy, or ass. Do both at the same time for maximum results.

Extra Dirty for Your (Reading) Pleasure!

One woman already tried some of them and let her husband control her orgasms around town. And just for shits and giggles, here are some stories about mothers in law that are not my own, but that are batshit insane.

Related posts:

21 Best Vibrating Panties You’ll Get Addicted ToThe 18 Best Sex Toys for Couples – Oh You’re Gonna Love This18 Best Lesbian Sex Toys (2025) – Lesbian Paradise is Here19 Best Nipple Clamps & Suckers – Top BDSM Nipple Toys21 Best Vibrating Panties You’ll Get Addicted ToThe 18 Best Sex Toys for Couples – Oh You’re Gonna Love This18 Best Lesbian Sex Toys (2025) – Lesbian Paradise is Here19 Best Nipple Clamps & Suckers – Top BDSM Nipple Toys

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