The best remote control vibrators come with WiFi or Bluetooth technology and can be used solo or with a partner. Here are 11 of the best, according to experts.

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by Lydia Wang, Sabrina Talbert and Honey WyattPublished: 12 March 2025 Jump to Products - What do remote control vibrators do?

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Best overall remote control vibrator

We-Vibe Chorus

£115 at Lovehoney£115 at LovehoneyRead review

Best remote control vibrator for partnered sex

LELO Tiani duo

£153 at LELO£153 at LELORead review

Best remote control clitoral suction simulator

Bellesa AirVibe Pro

£79 at bboutique.co£79 at bboutique.coRead review

Best remote control panty vibrator

We-Vibe Moxie

£85 at Lovehoney£85 at LovehoneyRead review

Best remote control bullet vibrator

Bed Nerdz Sandy Remote Controlled Bullet Vibrator

£45 at bednerdz.com£45 at bednerdz.comRead review

Best affordable remote control vibrator

Lovehoney Rendezvous Magnetic Remote Control Knicker Vibrator

£40 at Lovehoney£40 at LovehoneyRead review

Best versatile remote control vibrator

Bondara The Grinder

£55 at bondara.co.uk£55 at bondara.co.ukRead review

Best remote control rabbit vibrator

We-Vibe X Lovehoney Nova 2

£85 at Lovehoney£85 at LovehoneyRead review

Best remote control butt plug

B-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Silicone Jewelled Butt Plug

£100 at Lovehoney£100 at LovehoneyRead review

Best remote control vibrator for strap-on sex or pegging

We-Vibe Sync O

£80 at Lovehoney£80 at LovehoneyRead review

We-Vibe Chorus

£115 at Lovehoney £115 at Lovehoney Read review

LELO Tiani duo

£153 at LELO £153 at LELO Read review

Bellesa AirVibe Pro

£79 at bboutique.co £79 at bboutique.co Read review

We-Vibe Moxie

£85 at Lovehoney £85 at Lovehoney Read review

Bed Nerdz Sandy Remote Controlled Bullet Vibrator

£45 at bednerdz.com £45 at bednerdz.com Read review

Lovehoney Rendezvous Magnetic Remote Control Knicker Vibrator

£40 at Lovehoney £40 at Lovehoney Read review

Bondara The Grinder

£55 at bondara.co.uk £55 at bondara.co.uk Read review

We-Vibe X Lovehoney Nova 2

£85 at Lovehoney £85 at Lovehoney Read review

B-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Silicone Jewelled Butt Plug

£100 at Lovehoney £100 at Lovehoney Read review

We-Vibe Sync O

£80 at Lovehoney £80 at Lovehoney Read review Show more Especially if you’re looking for a sex toy that you plan to use internally, it’s crucial that it’s made from a non-porous material, like medical-grade silicone or hard, ABS plastic, says Cassie Krajewski, LCSW, a sex and relationship therapist and founder of Inner Atlas Therapy in Colorado.

Also, make sure it’s easy to clean, notes Lisa Finn, a sex educator with sex toy retailer Babeland — this is even more important if you plan to use your remote control vibrator while out and about, in case you have to clean it outside of your own home.

Intended use

Are you using a remote vibrator for solo play, partnered play, or a mix of both? Whatever your purpose may be, think about how the features of the toy might elevate your experience. You should also think about the kind of stimulation you like to receive (internal, external, clitoral, G-spot, etc.) to find a toy that aligns with those desires, says Krajewski.

If you’re specifically looking for a remote control toy you can enjoy with a partner in public (like a panty vibrator, for instance), you’ll also want to choose a quiet vibrator, adds Maria. In these cases, you might go for a vibrator that’s app-controlled; this way, your partner will just look like they’re shooting off a text as they discreetly control your toy.

For couples who aren’t necessarily looking for a toy to use outside of the home, but still want to play together, toys that offer a sync option could add an extra layer of intimacy, Maria notes.

‘If you are using the toy together, check if the toy allows dual custom patterns or syncs with music or voice control for a more immersive experience that both partners can enjoy,’ she recommends.

Meanwhile, those playing solo should look for hands-free, ergonomic designs with adjustable intensity levels, Maria suggests.

Remote range

Some remotes have longer ranges than others. ‘Some of these remotes are shorter-distance because they’re using radio frequency rather than Bluetooth, so you could be limited to using it within one room,’ says Finn. ‘But with the app-controlled ones, your toy needs to just be near your phone, because your phone is working as the transmitter — and the person controlling it can control it from anywhere around the world.’

If you want to have a long-distance partner control your vibrator from another country, for example, opt for an app-controlled product with a long range. But if you’re investing in a toy that you can use while (physically) together and/or during solo play, a vibrator with a shorter range can do the trick.

‘App-controlled toys with good WiFi connectivity would be essential for couples and long-distance play, while hands-free features with an ergonomic fit would better suit someone exploring solo play,’ say Maria.

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How our team chose the best remote control vibrators

For the past few months, our team of sex writers and editors at Women’s Health have tested the bestselling, most popular and top-rated remote control and app-controlled vibrators. Our team consulted sex therapists and sex educators, and then evaluated thousands of customer reviews and ratings to narrow down the best remote control vibrators for a wide range of preferences.

Ready to check out your options? Read on for the best remote control vibrators that will deliver pleasure at the push of a button.

11 best remote control vibrators to shop in 2025

We-Vibe Chorus

Best overall remote control vibrator

We-Vibe Chorus

Now 39% Off£115 at Lovehoney

Pros

• Squeeze-control remote
• Unlimited settings
• Can be used during penetrative sex

Cons

• On the pricier side

• Squeeze-control remote

• Unlimited settings

• Can be used during penetrative sex

• On the pricier side

You can consider the We-Vibe Chorus the holy grail of remote control vibrators. It comes with a remote, but can also be controlled by a super-smart app that lets you create your own settings and control the app from anywhere. (So, yes, your long-distance S.O. can switch up your speed from another city or even country.)

This one comes with two motors: an internal portion that slides up against your vaginal wall, and an external portion that delivers buzzy vibrations to your clitoris.

But one of the Chorus’ coolest features is its remote, which increases intensity the harder your squeeze it. No more fiddling for the right button in the heat of the moment!

Lelo Tiani Duo

Best remote control vibrator for partnered sex

LELO Tiani duo

Now 23% Off£153 at LELO

Pros

• Simple interface
• Long-lasting charge
• Remote can be used from far away

Cons

• Might be too intense for public play

• Simple interface

• Long-lasting charge

• Remote can be used from far away

• Might be too intense for public play

Lelo’s Tiani is a bestseller, and it’s easy to see why. One arm vibrates inside you, while another massages your clitoris. It can absolutely be used solo, but you can also try it during partnered penetrative sex — when the two motors can deliver pleasurable sensations to both partners.

The best part of this toy is not its ability to induce blended orgasms, though, but instead Lelo’s SenseMotion technology, which allows you to switch intensities on the wireless remote without pressing a thing. Simply flick your wrist while holding the remote, and ta-da! Bigger, buzzier, and faster vibrations.

Bellesa AirVibe Pro

Best remote control clitoral suction simulator

Bellesa AirVibe Pro

Now 20% Off£79 at bboutique.co

Pros

• Oral sex simulation but… hands free
• Long battery life
• Comes in a handy discreet box

Cons

• Remote doesn’t fit in the box, so you might lose it

• Oral sex simulation but… hands free

• Long battery life

• Comes in a handy discreet box

• Remote doesn’t fit in the box, so you might lose it

One of the beautiful things about the sex tech community is that women know exactly what they want from a toy — and luckily Canada-based Bellesa takes feedback very seriously.

After much furore, Bellesa added a remote control to accompany its best-selling product, so you can enjoy dual clitoral suction and G-spot stimulation truly hands-free.

It even comes in its own storage case, to keep it away from prying eyes, and is quieter than the previous iteration of the product, for added discretion.

We-Vibe Moxie+

Best remote control panty vibrator

We-Vibe Moxie

Now 29% Off£85 at Lovehoney

Pros

• Discreet
• Can be app-controlled
• Whisper-quiet

Cons

• Some say it takes a few tries to figure out how to keep it in place

• Discreet

• Can be app-controlled

• Whisper-quiet

• Some say it takes a few tries to figure out how to keep it in place

If you’re looking for a vibrator that can be remote-controlled while on a sexy, semi-public date… well, you might want to invest in a panty vibrator. And the Moxie+ is one of the best ones to try, says Oregon-based sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova. It uses a magnet to stay in place in your underwear, so you don’t have to worry about it migrating south.

Like all We-Vibe toys, this one can be controlled via an app, which is especially beneficial for semi-public discretion. Whether your partner’s across from you on a dinner date or in another city, they can control your vibrator’s speed and setting while it looks like they’re just shooting off a text. Hot!

Bed Nerdz Sandy Bullet Vibrator

Best remote control bullet vibrator

Bed Nerdz Sandy Remote Controlled Bullet Vibrator

£45 at bednerdz.com

Pros

• Basic bullet, elevated
• Discreet for public play

Cons

• Not as easy to keep in place for public play

• Basic bullet, elevated

• Discreet for public play

• Not as easy to keep in place for public play

Everyone needs a bullet vibrator in their toy collection — trust us. These versatile mini motors can be used for anything from foreplay to direct clit stimulation, and can even be attached to some finger vibrators, strap ons and cock rings.

This one from luxury sex toy brand Bed Nerdz comes with its own remote, and is quiet enough to take out and about for public play, if that’s your thing. If you’re looking for something hands-free, we’d recommend attaching the Sandy to one of the aforementioned sex toys, so you don’t have to worry about holding it in place.

‘Quiet enough for no one to notice, but powerful enough for people to wonder why I’ve lost the power of speech,’ one reviewer says. Sold!

Lovehoney Rendezvous Panty Vibrator

Best affordable remote control vibrator

Lovehoney Rendezvous Magnetic Remote Control Knicker Vibrator

£40 at Lovehoney

Pros

• Sleek design
• Ideal for public play
• Budget-friendly

Cons

• Not app-controlled

• Sleek design

• Ideal for public play

• Budget-friendly

• Not app-controlled

This panty vibrator is a whisper-quiet, intuitive and budget-friendly pick. While it’s controlled via a remote, not an app, it’s extremely easy to use — and this one also stays in place via magnets, so you don’t have to worry about any slipping or sliding.

Plus, the vibrator itself features an ergonomic shape designed to hit all the right spots, including ‘a pronounced bulbous edge that is designed to perfectly fit in the labia to stimulate the clitoris,’ according to Frye-Nekrasova.

Bondara The Grinder

Best versatile remote control vibrator

Bondara The Grinder

£55 at bondara.co.uk

Pros

• Impressively versatile
• Plenty of surface area to hit all the sweet spots

Cons

• Remote uses batteries that aren’t included

• Impressively versatile

• Plenty of surface area to hit all the sweet spots

• Remote uses batteries that aren’t included

Some of us want to grind our way to the big O, and finding a toy specifically designed for that is rare. Enter: Bondara’s remote controlled vibrator, which features a hole that can be looped over fingers, a penis, or dildo; and a long, ribbed, vibrating surface to hit that C-spot in any way you like.

Plus, its 10 patterns and five intensities are controlled with a teeny matching remote control, so there are no buttons get in the way of your straddle.

We-Vibe Nova 2

Best remote control rabbit vibrator

We-Vibe X Lovehoney Nova 2

Now 29% Off£85 at Lovehoney

Pros

• Dual stimulation
• Adjustable arm
• Features unlimited speeds and settings

Cons

• On the pricier side

• Dual stimulation

• Adjustable arm

• Features unlimited speeds and settings

• On the pricier side

Can’t decide between a clitoral vibrator and an insertable one? With this dual stimulation toy, one arm curves inside you to hit your G-spot, while the other delivers oh-so-pleasurable sensations to your clit.

‘What I like about the We-Vibe Nova is that both its internal and external arms are deeply curved,’ says one Women’s Health tester. ‘So the part that goes inside is pretty much guaranteed to hit my G-spot, and the outside part never loses contact with my clit, no matter how much I move around.

With some insertable toys, it can be hard to move between speeds and settings without removing your toy (or at least moving your body around). But thanks to We-Vibe’s app, you can play around with unlimited settings without missing a beat.

B-Vibe Jewelled Butt Plug

Best remote control butt plug

B-Vibe Remote Control Rechargeable Vibrating Silicone Jewelled Butt Plug

£100 at Lovehoney

Pros

• Pretty in pink
• Easy switch settings with three buttons

Cons

• On the pricier side
• Not for anal beginners

• Pretty in pink

• Easy switch settings with three buttons

• On the pricier side

• Not for anal beginners

If you’re keeping a butt plug inserted while doing other, er, activities — for instance, going down on your partner, or receiving vaginal penetration — you might be too busy to fumble around with tons of buttons. With the B-Vibe, you can simply hold the remote (or have a partner hold it!) and switch the speeds without reaching down.

While the 4.5 inch circumference might be slightly too big for anal beginners, with plenty of anal-safe lube it makes an ideal bejewelled bestie for the anal-accustomed among us.

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We-Vibe Sync O

Best remote control vibrator for strap-on sex or pegging

We-Vibe Sync O

Now 50% Off£80 at Lovehoney

Pros

• More affordable than other We-Vibe products
• Great for partnered play
• Multiple color options

Cons

• Some people wish it were quieter

• More affordable than other We-Vibe products

• Great for partnered play

• Multiple color options

• Some people wish it were quieter

This vibrator is similar to the Chorus, but it’s a slightly cheaper alternative. For blended orgasm lovers, it features an external arm that presses against the clitoris, and an insertable piece that pushes against the G-spot.

You can use it solo, but also enjoy this one while receiving penetration from a penis, dildo, or fingers. The Sync can also be great for strap-on play, says Finn: You can wear it under a harness and enjoy some dual stimulation while penetrating someone else.

Crucially, the Sync comes with an extremely high-tech app and discreet remote that works from 10 feet away. ‘The We-Vibe app has all these different features. You can draw on the screen, you can sync it up to music and have video chat sex, which is built into the app as well,’ Finn says. Plus, the app is extremely secure and encrypted, so you don’t have to worry about your video sessions getting leaked, she adds.

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

Best remote control couples sex toy

Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo

£129 at hotoctopuss.com

Pros

• Ideal for non penetrative partnered sex
• 7 powerful vibration modes

Cons

• Only runs for up to an hour

• Ideal for non penetrative partnered sex

• 7 powerful vibration modes

• Only runs for up to an hour

Often when we discuss sex, penetrative sex is painted as the goal. But that isn’t the case for everyone — particularly when they experience erectile dysfunction, painful sex due to conditions like endometriosis, or simply want to play pressure-free.

For couples who still want to explore without penetrative sex, Maria suggests Hot Octopuss’ Pulse Duo — a couples’ version of the brand’s ‘guybrator’, which wraps around the penis and features a dual motor to send vibrations down his shaft and to hit your C-spot.

Oh, and of course this is all controlled via the handy remote control it comes with — controllable from up to three metres away.

What are the benefits of remote control vibrators?

‘One of the biggest misconceptions about remote-controlled and app-controlled vibrators is that you need a partner in order for that to be something worth investing in,’ says Finn. ‘But having a remote control is really great for a variety of reasons.’ Here are just a few:

1. They have tons of different speeds and settings

On a toy with manual buttons, you only have so many vibration options; after all, it would be pretty hard to cycle through a hundred different speeds and settings by pressing one or two buttons again and again, right? But with most apps, like We-Vibe’s, you (or a partner) can choose from countless speeds, or even design your own.

‘It’s really great if you’re the kind of person who finds that, when you’re flipping through the different settings on your vibrator, you’re going from three to four and just really wishing there was a three and a half,’ says Finn. Some of these toys even have the capability to sync with your favourite sexy Spotify playlist or audio erotica, they add.

2. They’re accessible for people with limited mobility

It can be hard to reach around and change your vibrator’s settings during use if you have limited mobility, notes Finn. But with a remote-controlled toy, you can just keep your remote or phone wherever your hands are and change settings with ease.

That said, this isn’t just a benefit for folks who are disabled or struggle with mobility. Say you’re trying a new penetrative sex position while someone wears a cock ring, or you’re donning a strap-on dildo for the first time. It might feel very cumbersome to have to reach between your bodies to turn your toy on or off, or switch through settings, says Finn. But it can feel easier (and a whole lot sexier) to just hold a remote in your hand and control the product without adjusting yourselves.

3. They’re great for long-distance couples

Hot tip: you don’t even have to be in the same place as your partner when you use one of these babies. This can help you stay connected and keep your sexual spark alive even if and when you’re apart.

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Tips for using remote control sex toys

The benefits of using a sex toy with a remote control is being able to (literally) hand your orgasm over to someone else. Like any orgasm, this should start at the very beginning of sex, Maria recommends.

‘My top tip for using remote-controlled sex toys is to start by incorporating them into foreplay first,’ she says. ‘Remote toys can help build anticipation and excitement, even before touching. Let your partner take control while you relax and enjoy the sensation, and start to use them together during partnered sex.’

Getting used to the vibration patterns during foreplay can also make for a more enjoyable experience during sex, Maria adds. ‘Always experiment with the settings before going all the way,’ she suggests.

‘Before diving into partnered play, I recommend getting familiar with the vibration patterns, intensity levels, and remote functions to find what feels best so you don’t ditch it to the side. Remember, practice makes perfect.’

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From: Women’s Health US Lydia WangLove & Life EditorLydia Wang is the love & life editor at Women’s Health, where she writes and edits content about sexual health, love and relationships, queerness, sex tech, and astrology. She is also the co-author of the romance novel Here For The Wrong Reasons, and previously covered sex and dating for Refinery29, Elite Daily, and more. When she’s not diving deep into the latest sex trends or researching the best vibrators on the market, you can find her reading at a coffee shop or watching reality TV.

Sabrina TalbertEditorial AssistantSabrina Talbert is the beauty editorial assistant at Women’s Health. With over five years of experience, her bylines have appeared in Byrdie, Nylon, Daily Front Row, and more. She’s passionate about covering topics related to haircare, skincare, and the latest happenings at the intersection of beauty and sports. When she’s not working, you can catch her training for her next race (NYC Marathon loading!) and binge-watching F1 or combat sports.

Honey WyattSenior Sex and Relationships Ecommerce Writer for Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Men’s HealthHoney Wyatt is the Sex and Relationships Senior Ecommerce Writer for Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health and Men’s Health, covering the best sex toys, lubes, and any product or service that positively contributes to sexual wellbeing and healthy relationships.

Honey completed an MA in magazine journalism at City, University of London in 2023, which she passed with a merit. She has run Sextras, a podcast and magazine about sex and relationships, since 2020, speaking to experts on everything from sex worker rights to how to practice sex magic and whether man-hating is justified.

Previously, she was a reporter for HR magazine, where she covered the importance of wellbeing and diversity, equity and inclusion in the workplace, as well as the juicy (and often disturbing) ins and outs of employment tribunals. She has also written about sex, fashion, beauty, and culture for Glamour, Refinery29, Woo, The Independent and SPHERE.

When she’s not asking everyone she meets invasive questions about their sex and dating lives, you can find Honey bingeing noughties/nineties box sets, belting Chappell Roan or Wicked around her flat, teaching herself a craft that seems unlikely she’ll be able to achieve (spoiler: she does), or pondering the meaning of life to a podcast on long walks.

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